I'm also conducting my research here.
Most of my patients are men and as a subject, they have access and are allowed to contact me. Well, regarding only research matters, that is.
One night, I received a phone call. One of my patients. A male. He asked where am I and what I'm doing at the moment.
I answered with,
"Itu semua tak penting. Yang penting sekarang, kenapa ye telefon?"
It's about being strict and direct. No hanky panky.